December 18, 2023 In Divorce

Impact of Restraining Orders on Marital Home in Divorce Cases

The Intersection of Restraining Orders and Marital Home Rights During Divorce

In the midst of a divorce, if one party obtains a restraining order against the other, it significantly impacts both parties’ rights and access to the marital home. This situation often arises in instances of domestic violence or severe conflict. Here’s how a restraining order can affect the dynamics of who stays in the marital home during a divorce.

1. Exclusive Use of Marital Home:

  • Immediate Effect: When a restraining order is issued, it may include provisions that grant one spouse exclusive use and possession of the marital home. This means the restrained spouse must vacate the premises, even if they are a co-owner or primary leaseholder.

Example: Sara obtains a restraining order against her husband, Tom, citing domestic abuse. The court orders Tom to leave their shared home immediately, granting Sara exclusive use.

2. Impact on Custody and Visitation:

  • Children’s Safety: In cases involving children, the court prioritizes their safety. If a restraining order is against a parent, it may influence the court’s decisions regarding child custody and visitation, potentially limiting the restrained parent’s access to the children at the marital home.

Example: If Tom and Sara have children, and the court deems Tom a potential threat, his visitation rights might be restricted, and he may not be allowed to visit the children at the marital home.


3. Financial Responsibilities:

  • Mortgage and Rent: The responsibility for mortgage payments or rent does not automatically change due to a restraining order. Both parties may still be liable for these payments, depending on their financial agreement or court orders.

Example: Although Tom is required to leave the home, he might still be responsible for contributing to the mortgage payments, as determined by the court.


4. Retrieving Personal Belongings:

  • Supervised Visits: The restrained party may be allowed to return to the home to collect personal belongings, but this often must be done under supervision or at a designated time to avoid conflict.

Example: Tom can return to collect his personal items, but only under the supervision of law enforcement, to ensure Sara’s safety.

5. Long-Term Implications:

  • Property Division: The existence of a restraining order can influence the final division of property, including the marital home, during divorce proceedings.

Example: The court may grant Sara the marital home in the final divorce settlement, considering the circumstances that led to the restraining order.

6. Duration and Modifications:

  • Temporary Orders: Initially, restraining orders are often temporary. They can be modified or terminated based on changing circumstances or further court rulings.

Example: If circumstances change, Tom can request the court to reassess the restraining order and its terms regarding the marital home.


The issuance of a restraining order during a divorce significantly alters the dynamics of property rights, specifically regarding the marital home. It affects where each party can reside, their financial responsibilities, and potentially the outcome of property division. It’s crucial to understand these implications and seek legal assistance to navigate such complex situations effectively.


For personalized legal guidance or representation in matters involving divorce and restraining orders, The Mines Law Firm is prepared to assist. We are dedicated to providing our clients with the professional support they need during these challenging times.

Disclaimer: This blog is for informational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice. For specific legal guidance on your case, please contact The Mines Law Firm for representation.